yunjjong:

Fans that do not want their biases to date or get married just…dngmh at all. You’re selfish, possessive, and a dense dickwad if you somehow think it’s ok for you to consider idols as “everyone’s lover”. Idols already sacrifice and work so much to gain the love of the public; they put aside their personal thoughts, desires, or feelings for your sake. They deal with the struggles and hardships just so you can be happy and so they can maintain their success. Sure you invest a lot of $$ in them when you buy CD’s, gifts, concert tickets, etc. So in a way some people might actually think they own them rofl? Newsflash, you don’t. So you can’t overstep your boundaries by trying to control their personal life. Why would you not want them to find love? Why would you throw a bitch fit over something like that? They don’t belong to you…

Like jfc how hard is it to just support them? Don’t half-ass your support by only sticking around when they please you and for fucks sake DON’T come crawling back to them only when they’re abiding your rules and impossible standards. There’s a name for people who do that shit. Flakes.